most of us have tried figuring it out alone. and something stays stuck anyway.
through my own experiences of not knowing, of being on the outside, of starting again, i recognise how lonely it can be to lose yourself, and how frightening it can feel to be found.
therapy is different not only because of what gets said, but because of what happens in the relationship itself. being unalone in our struggling, with someone who can stay attuned, grounded and present, is what opens the space for the work to happen.
i am here to help you make sense of what happened to you, how you adapted, and why those adaptations made sense at the time. how we relate to ourselves and others as adults is deeply rooted in our early relationships and experiences, and the meanings we made of them. we didn't choose those meanings, but with time and the right conditions, we can question whether they're still serving us. and imagine what moving forward could look like.
our capacity to change is not fixed.
new experiences and relationships, including the one we build together, can reshape how we feel, respond and understand ourselves. we can make room for new ways of being, and rewrite our stories to reflect who we get to become.
i work with curiosity over certainty, compassion over blame, and hope that slowly emerges through experience of trust.